Undergo long-distance relationship is not easy. But that does not mean you can not find a solution to the long distance relationship (LDR) permanent lasting and durable.
Psychologist Anna Surti Ariani S.Psi.M.Si. said the key point is trust. With trust each other despite the limitations restricted access to communication, the relationship can be a success.
How to foster trust in your partner? ?The combination of our own belief of him, friends and family. If for example, we are a little hard to believe, increase the knowledge of him and his friends,? advises psychologist who is familiarly called Nina, ?when contacted by phone on Friday (31/08 / 2012).
For that you need to?know the people who were with or near him when you are away from you. Not to be a possessive by always calling her friends all the time, but for a more just in case someday he berkabar difficult to contact or not at all.
?That in many cases nolong really, if there?s anything with the help of their partner,? said psychologist who likes to provide consultation via Twitter this.
Many ways can be done to recognize and familiarize yourself with co-workers or close friends partner while in the ?overseas? despite the distance apart. One way to take advantage of social media sites or participate in online discussion groups as an initial introduction. It could also ask when your lover is introduced by taking the visit to the place.
?Able to comment, so acquaintances. Someone then took part in a particular mailing list. (Should) have introduced, while deliberately visiting partner, acquaintance with his friends if it?s intended,? added Nina.
Besides friends, try also to get closer to him family. Not only parents, but also the older brother / sister, cousin or other close relatives. When there is a chance, go to a family whose home is close to where you live. If the couple came home and invite you to join family gatherings, do not hesitate to come and use this opportunity to get acquainted closer to his family. Establish relationship with the partner?s family is quite important, because someday you will definitely need their help.
?Do not just dealing with a girlfriend and a friend but also her extended family. Difficult to access if their partner can take help telponkan. Was a good family, pinjemin money to the city so that he could get there (where his girlfriend lived.) Or is there a relative who next month will be the task there, offering to partner nengokin. (Just) do not limit the relationship between you and your partner, ?explained psychologist who handles a lot of consultation to families and the wedding preparations.
Nina suggests, do not forget also your intuition. Find the evidence for yourself if she can really trust. If you do not believe, or find out what things made you doubt it and talking about it to a lover.
?Some women often have a feeling, intuition, things like that still need to be trusted. Was a way for the relationship (able to walk) smooth. Whether it was intuition more trust or (even) so do not believe it. Example,? It seems there was any OK deh. Kok talking to him different? ?. Seek find out, ?he explained.
Source: http://www.shopparish.com/love/373/tips-to-increase-confidence-at-long-distance-relationships
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